For the woman who knows exactly what's happening — and still freezes
12 Claude skills that turn everything you've read about gaslighting, boundaries and toxic dynamics into a calibrated script — for the 11pm message, the boundary with your mother, the meeting with your manager.
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Why this is different
It's not a book. Not a course. Not another 8-week program you'll abandon by week two. Soft Power is something almost embarrassingly small — and that's exactly why it works: the exact words, in your hand, at the precise second you need them.
TikTok educates you. Books explain it. None of them are in the room at 11:14pm when your phone lights up and your thumbs are already typing something you'll regret.
What it gives you
One thing, above all: you walk into the hard moment with the right words already prepared — and you walk out with your peace and your self-respect intact. No more lying awake replaying it. No more sending the message you regret by morning.
Why you freeze (it isn't your fault)
You've done the reading. You can define gaslighting, DARVO and enmeshment in your sleep. So why do you still freeze?
Because knowing the theory and having the words are two different skills — and no one ever taught you the second one. On a calm afternoon you see every pattern. At 11:14pm, flooded and alone in front of the screen, the theory is nowhere to be found. That's not weakness. That's how a nervous system works under pressure.
Who profited from keeping you stuck
An entire industry sells you more theory — the $2,000 program, the 300-page book, the weekend seminar — because theory is easy to sell and impossible to refund a result on. Meanwhile the one person who benefits most from your hesitation is the one who learned, long ago, that if they push hard enough at 11pm, you'll cave.
This is the opposite of all that. Not more to understand. Something to use.
Why me
I watched someone I love slowly disappear inside a relationship that kept telling her she was “too sensitive,” “too much,” “remembering it wrong.” She wasn't weak — she was one of the strongest people I know. But after enough years of being told the floor wasn't where she'd left it, she stopped trusting her own feet.
What helped wasn't another book. It was having the exact sentence ready before a hard conversation. So I started writing them down, turning each into a skill anyone could open and use. That became Soft Power.
How it works — 3 steps
Every skill walks you through the same simple arc:
Name the tactic so the fog lifts — gaslight, guilt-trip, blame-shift.
Get a calibrated script you can say in two breaths, no JADE.
Survive the pushback without caving — or exploding.
Twelve skills, one for each scene that keeps repeating: the 11pm message, the boundary, the live conflict, the 2am spiral, the hard conversation, the reality-check, and more. You open one in Claude, it asks you the right questions, and hands you words that sound like a calmer version of you.
How you know it's real
“I used to draft furious replies at midnight. Now I open the skill, send three calm sentences, and go to sleep.” — example · separation
“The Reality-Check skill didn't just agree with me. It made me see my part too. That's why I trust it.” — example · family
And the framing isn't improvised — each skill is grounded in established work: Dr. Ramani on narcissistic dynamics, Vienna Pharaon on family patterns, Esther Perel on repair, the BIFF method for high-conflict messages. You're one of 1.1 million women in r/raisedbynarcissists alone — a very large, very quiet group who already know, and are done staying stuck.
Everything you get today
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Why now
Two reasons, both honest. First, the price: $49 is the founding price while we open — it rises to $69 once the first wave of members is in, so today is the cheapest it will ever be. Second, and the one that actually matters: a tense moment is already on its way to you this week. The only question is whether you meet it with the right words, or improvise again.
Open the skills, use them on a real situation. If you don't walk away calmer and clearer within 14 days, email me and I'll refund every cent — and you keep the free guide. The only risk here is staying stuck.
How to start (60 seconds)
Click below, check out securely, and you're in immediately. Open Claude, paste a skill, and start talking. That's it — no install, no setup, no waiting.
If you close this page
Nothing dramatic happens tonight. But the next message still lands. The next dinner still comes. And six months from now you're still the one apologizing, still replaying conversations at 2am, still telling yourself you'll “handle it better next time” — without the one thing that would actually let you. You already did the hard part: the learning. This just puts it in your hand.
With you, [Ta signature — ton prénom] Founder, Soft Power
P.S. — Remember the two things that make this a no-brainer: it's $49 only while we're opening (then $69), and you're protected by a 14-day money-back guarantee — try it on something real, and if it doesn't help, I refund you and you keep the free guide. The only thing you can't get back is another night spent typing and deleting. Start here →